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How to Lose the Wait

How to Lose the Wait

Hosted by: Holly Toscanini

Welcome to How to Lose the ‘WAIT’—the podcast for women in midlife who are tired of living like their real life starts “later.” If you’ve been waiting for confidence, the perfect timing, the perfect body, the perfect...

Episodes

87. What Happens When You Stop Asking for Permission

Season #4 Episode #87

Stop waiting for permission. Discover the quiet power of self-approval, intuition, and midlife reinvention in this empowering episode. Source
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86. The Confidence Gap: Why Smart Women Still Second-Guess Themselves

Season #4 Episode #86

Why experience doesn’t always equal confidence — and three micro-habits that rebuild self-trust fast. Source
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85. The Religion of Thinness: Why Midlife Women Deserve a New Faith

Season #4 Episode #85

Discover how diet culture became a modern religion—and how midlife women can reclaim sovereignty, self-trust, and joy in the GLP-1 era. Source
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84. Middlescence: Women Over 50 Are The Influencers We Need Now

Season #4 Episode #84

Middlescence is ignition, not decline. Discover how women 45–65 are wisdom-keepers, creators, and influencers shaping the future. Source
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83. It’s Not Too Late: The Midlife Wake-Up Call You Didn’t Know You Needed

Season #4 Episode #83

Feeling stuck in midlife? This empowering episode is your reminder that it’s never too late to expand, say yes to yourself, and start living fully. Source
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82. How to Know You’re Ready -The real question is are you willing?

Season #4 Episode #82

Stop waiting to feel ready. Learn how to trust the nudge, say yes even in fear, and step into your next chapter with confidence and self-trust. Source
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81. From Good Girl to Rule Breaker: Designing the Life You Actually Want

Season #4 Episode #81

Holly Toscanini explores how “good girl” conditioning holds women back and why midlife is the perfect time to become your own rule maker. Discover how to reclaim self-trust, write new rules, and create the life you...
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80: Enough Already: How to Finally Feel ‘Good Enough’ Exactly as You Are

Season #4 Episode #80

In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini tackles one of the most common struggles women over[...] Source
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79. Reclaim Your Energy: Letting Go to Embrace Your Next Chapter

Season #4 Episode #79

Is it really burnout—or are you carrying too much of what was never yours to begin with? In this episode[...] Source
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78. Why September Is the Real New Year (and Your Perfect Moment to Reinvent)

Season #4 Episode #78

Forget January—September is the real New Year, especially for women in midlife. In this episode, Holly Toscanini reveals how to use the fresh-start energy of fall to reset, let go of what’s not working, and take...
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77. Teri Hofford- Learning to Embrace Yourself in Photos and in Life

Season #4 Episode #77

If you’ve ever waited to feel camera-ready—or life-ready—this conversation is your wake-up call. Teri shares tools, mindset shifts, and empowering stories that will help you stop hiding, start showing up, and see...
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75. We Simply Do Not Care Anymore, Midlife Women Are Over It—and Finally Living

Season #4 Episode #75

Holly explores what it really means when women in midlife say, “We simply do not care anymore.” Inspired by a viral BuzzFeed article and TikTok creator @justbeingmelani, this episode dives into the radical freedom...
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